Today LiveCam-Experts.com seeks to answer one question that not many people have a clear answer. That question is, how long does the average man last in bed? After watching too much porn, there is a concern for men to last longer in bed. It has forced men who feel like they don’t last long enough to feel very ashamed of themselves. Today, you get to know how many minutes are enough and how many are not satisfying. I understand some men last a minute or two in bed in what the medical practitioners like to refer to as premature ejaculation. That, however, is a discussion for another day.
Not a Straightforward Task
It is not an easy task to measure the average time to reach an orgasm and asking people how long they last. Well, it is not as straightforward as it sounds. First, there is a tendency with men to exaggerate how long they can last in bed because there is an expectation that a man should last late into the night. No man wants to appear weak. The second problem is few people actually know how long they last. Sex is not something you will do as you monitor a bedside clock and measuring time unassisted especially in the middle of an intense lovemaking session is the hardest thing to do. I’m sure men can relate.
What Has Research Established?
Some studies have been done by researches to establish just how long men last in bed. This study involved 500 couples from around the world over a month period. Believe it or not, these couples checked how long they lasted using a stopwatch, weird, right? It actually got more awkward. The couple were supposed to press ‘start’ immediately after beginning the vaginal sex and then ‘stop’ at ejaculation. How didn’t this effect their performance, it very hard to understand.
We all agree that timing yourself while fucking is not ideal and may not reflect the natural flow of things, because obviously your mind is thinking about the clock. But science is never perfect. The results of the study were quite fascinating because of their huge amount of variation. In the four weeks, it took to complete the study; it was established that sex lasted between 40 seconds to 45 minutes. The average time across all the couples was 5 minutes and 20 seconds. The majority of men lasted between 4-10 minutes. Another interesting fact was that sex was shorter among older couples, which is contrary to the usual understanding peddled around by older men that older people last longer.
Another prevailing wisdom to be shattered by the study is that wearing a condom or being not circumcised can affect how long one lasts in bed. Men have believed for the longest time that a condom takes away sensitivity from the penis and feelings, therefore it affects an individual’s ability to maintain an erection. Men who cite the use of condoms as a barrier to maintaining an erection are most likely suffering from general erectile dysfunction. Whether they use a condom or not is neither here nor there.
5 Minutes Is a Good Thing
Well, depending with where you come from, (the study established that men from certain parts of the Middle East actually last on average of almost 4 minutes), if you last 5 minutes on average, then you are good my friend. Do not let the guys you watch in porn videos deceive you. There is no way you are going to continue pounding for like a whole day. However, if you last between 1-2 minutes, that’s too short, and you probably need to see a urologist. 3-7 minutes is described as desirable while anything between 10-30 minutes is deemed ‘too long,’ which to me sounds a bit strange. Anything over 10 minutes is both ideal and unusual.
Slow Things Down
Did you know that you can slow down things a little by sharpening your jerking skills? You can practice this through what is called ejaculatory inhibition (delayed ejaculation) which will help you last longer in bed. Additionally, it’s better to switch positions during sex and adjust the momentum and patterns of your thrusts in which case you might surpass the 18-minute mark that all legitimately normal people never fail to achieve.
Why Does Sex Last Long Anyway?
I know this sounds a bit crazy but why does sex last long at all? If the whole idea of sex is to deposit cum into the vagina, why not dip in and out and get it done with, go grab some water, chill a bit and continue with the rest of the day? Because it’s fun and enjoyable you think? Well, food is also enjoyable to eat, but I don’t remember chewing every mouthful for five minutes before swallowing. The simple answer is that nature designed it to be like that in order to give the swimming sperms a better chance of reaching the egg. The fun part is simply secondary. So, what should you do with this information? I suggest you don’t even think about it during your moment of passion with a woman.
Be Open To Adventures
Do you have the desire to have longer sex? Of course, you have. Then you need to take it beyond the basics. Be open to some adventure. This includes oral sex and masturbation which will make you have a longer session than just engaging in vaginal sex. The more flexible you are as a couple, the longer you will last in bed. For sure it doesn’t get better than that.
So there you go. Now you know. An average man can last five minutes in bed. Now it’s your turn to decide on which side of the fence you want to sit and what you can do to improve your situation (if needed). Think about it.